Regardless of what time of day, or where you are, there is always something that can be done. For instance, when is the last time you whispered a secret in his ear? You know that kind that I am really talking about. This is the time that you lean in very close like you have something extremely important and sensitive to say and instead all he can feel is the tip of your tongue barely grazing his skin. Follow up with light exhalation and move back like the secret has been delivered. When this tip is delivered correctly, only the two of you will know what happened.

Once you are alone make your move. Begin this with a kiss. Not the simple peck on the lips, I mean the full fledge tongue combat whole body involvement kiss. Do not make him feel like you are trying to pull his face off, simply be passionate. Gentle sucking of lips and tongue can go a long way. Use your hands to pull his body close to yours, or if you feel up to it, back him into a wall or other stationary object to show that he is yours to do with what you please.

With sex clothing is always optional. I have yet to find anywhere the sexy way to remove socks, so get them off as quickly as possible. All other clothing should be removed slowly, and with as much touching as you can manage. As the pants begin to slide down his legs, wrap your bare leg around his. And make sure to take the time to step back and give an appraising look, this is optimal to telling him how attractive he is to you.

Remember, men are not fragile. Feel free to “man handle” your man. Do not break him, by any means, but fingernails can be sexy. If you have him pinned against a wall, use that to your advantage to continue on. Use your hands to push against his chest, or reach down and roughly caress his thighs, grab his hips and pull them to you. Mix it up. Light nipping on any body part at any time can be a turn on, by light I mean not leaving teeth marks that remain for a week.

Do not over look the power of suggestive conversation. In other words, talk dirty. Not sure how, it’s easier then you think. You know what you intend to do with him, so tell him. Use language that is as explicit as possible. Be descriptive and energetic, not perky, but sound as interested as you really are. If you sound like you are bored or as if you don’t want to do this, he will know and will respond accordingly. Whereas even if you are unsure of this trick, you succeed in sounding coy, this is a turn on in itself. After you begin, and see and feel how he is excited by this, it will be easier to continue, be careful not to say something that you do not intend to at least attempt to do.

Begin talking dirty while leading him to a place you can remain until after sex. Once you have him there, use a blindfold, this will keep him guessing and heighten the pleasures you are giving him. Whether it is oral sex, or kissing his neck, knees or the small of his back, it will be amazing if he can not see what is about to happen next.

Use every tool in your personal arsenal to get him to the absolute brink of climax. Never forget to use the act of sex itself. Many people neglect the fact that a few seconds of sex can itself be a form of foreplay. Stay long enough to establish a rhythm and make him think that the foreplay is over. And then go onto something else. Maybe kiss his ankles or suck his toes. Anything to make him wonder what is coming up next.

This will only work for a few times after which the surprise will have worn off and it will be routine. Routine is exactly what you are trying to avoid. Keep any maneuvers from the past that he enjoys while trying out something new. Variety truly is the spice of life, no matter how long you have been together, there is always a way to mix it up.

And remember…keep it enjoyable!!!

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This is only a guide, as I have learned over the years, all women are different. The best way to begin is with communication. She knows what it is that she likes, and this will save you both from enduring mistakes that are not enjoyable for either of you. The ultimate goal, of course, is an orgasm, however, there is a lot of pleasure to be had along the way, so take your time and enjoy yourselves.

Too many guides will tell you to use your whole face, and use your fingers. As with any new technique you are using, be aware of your partner making any movements, and or sounds that let you know you are on the right track.

I always begin with straight out licking. I begin at the bottom of her pussy, and using a little more than the tip of my tongue, extend all the way to the top. Use this time to make sure that you are both comfortable with the positions that you are in. Now is a great time to determine is either one of you would like a pillow. Once you know that you both are comfortable begin seeking out her “special” place. This is the spot where once you tongue slides over it once, she is ready. And there is no mistaking this!!

Use the tip of your tongue to explore everywhere to find this spot. Try not to concentrate in one position. Yes, most women enjoy feeling your tongue entering her, but it is probably not going to make her orgasm. More often then not, the spot is the clitoris or somewhere very close to it. Now that you have found it, use broad strokes with your tongue to generate tension.

Teasing is a good thing. By beginning with broad strokes, moving onto the tip of the tongue, and sucking gently are great ways to keep her guessing which move will be next. As you continue the teasing you will see or hear that she is responding more to certain movements. When you both are ready for the orgasm, continue more with the move(s) that generate the most interest. During the teasing, use of the fingers can bring about an added feeling of excitement for some. Try not to do anything different here, if you have used your fingers before stay with the same technique, and see if this adds or detracts from the ultimate pleasure you are giving her.

I am not trying to give you too much to do at once, however, there can be so much more to the teasing stages then simply trying to find the spot. Use the time for the kissing, licking and light nipping of the inner thighs, keeping her questing what you will do next will keep her anticipating what you are to do. If it is possible and she would like it, use your hands to caress her breasts.

This is the time when you really need to be aware of her response to you. There may be a time when she would like the sucking/licking movement at once. It may be that she moves her hips in at attempt to be closer or further from you. Listen to anything that she says, and respond to what she wants. Let her move if she needs to. If she prefers to use her hands to guide, allow this. No one knows better than she, what it is she is looking for.

She knows what it will take to orgasm, and she will make sure that you know what it is that you need to do. Remember for an act performed at this level of intimacy requires communication on both sides. If you can not take the time to find out what she needs, chances are she will not be pleased with the result.

And remember…keep it enjoyable!!!

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Yes, that is right, when performed correctly Fellatio can be elevated into an art form. Not sure what to do? Is what you are doing really turning him on? If this is you, read on. This is not to say that every man will like what is here, it is to say, that with so many different techniques to use, these work the best on me. And maybe you can find one or two that will work great on your man.

Please allow me to clarify that my fiance is the one who tries this on me, and it has taken some time to actually pay attention to the details to be able to talk about what she does.

She says that in the beginning it is all about the tease. That’s right, the tease. I never know when she will really begin and I will end. Even though I know she will start with licking my testicles and inner thighs moving between the two with the occasional small nip in between, it still gets me hot.

Once she feels my response she uses just her tongue and licks the head of my penis. Always she is listening or feeling for a response to what is going on, this way she can tell when my full attention is on what is happening. After a minute, usually, of this special brand of torment she will lick and nip her way down the shaft of my penis. Note, so far she has not taken me into her mouth. All about the tease, she says.

Now, to mix it up, she goes right back to my inner thighs. Why not? She wants to keep me guessing as to what will happen next. And then, just when I think she won’t, her lips are around me, and I am disappearing into her mouth. The intense pleasure that can be felt with a tongue manipulating the shaft of your penis is indescribable.

Never stay with the mind numbing up and down motion, use your tongue to move from side to side, and up and down within your mouth. Keep the rhythm changing; do not continue with the repetitive motion. Try not to go all the way down every time, break up the place where you stop, and how you stop. One time pull your cheeks into you and really suck. You know we have all heard the one about a bowling ball through a garden hose? Try it. There is a reason that old joke has been around for so long. The next time, use you head, and bring your tongue from left to right as you continue up the shaft.

Once you know that your man is really getting into this, TEASE. Yes, not only will you have his attention like you never had before, it will drive him wild. For the full affect, leave the genital area entirely. Go for the soft kisses on his neck, licking his chest, maybe the ear lobe bit. Anything, simply to keep him guessing and wondering what he needs to do to get you back to his penis.

Since you now have him completely tormented, go for the grand finale. Seemingly out of the blue, go right back to his penis, and go all the way down. Yes for some people that are almost choking as you gag, this is well worth it. Pull yourself in for the most amount of suction you can possibly get. Take this about half way up, and go back for more.

Here is the only time that you really want to establish a rhythm. Allow him to dictate this rhythm. At first, this will be difficult, try to relax and go with it. If you change it up too much, he may not be able to reach a climax. Let him move his body why you remain as close to your position as you can. If you do feel that you are going to gag, move your head back a little until you are out of the range.

These are simply the basics, and you will need to master the basics before you can elevate them to an art form. There will be a later article to incorporate fingertips into increasing the pleasure. For now, this is enough to get started, and make you both wanting more.

And remember…keep it enjoyable!!!

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What could be better then that? Oh I will tell you what can be better than that. Bring something back into the bedroom in a new way. Why wait until you are in the bedroom anyway? I just came across a new game. Oral Sex! the game. Yes that is right, the oral sex game. And what does the winner get at the end? You know it.

For those couples or partners who have never tried a game before why wait, take the risk now and have fun later. If the oral sex game sounds a little too daunting or maybe even too tame for a great time, go for a round of Indecent Proposal. Spend your evening buying and selling sexual favors until even the loser wins at the end.

Delve into something that could whip you into a frenzy. With a bondage kit tie up your partner and enjoy some good old fashion clean entertainment while you tease, caress and lick your way to a sexual explosion. Do not forget to use some invigorating, or tingling massage/lubricating oils with a taste that you love. While you feel the squirming pleasure beneath your lips, the tongue is having a sensual experience like never before.

Male masturbators are a new tool in your arsenal of pleasure. Never thought about it before? Why not? Picture it, there he is, cuffed to the bed, blindfolded, a willing participant in anything that your mind desires. This is the time to please and tease in a way that hasn’t been done before. Enter: your new toy, insert batteries, push switch, and take him to a whole new level.

Ladies when you decide to change positions and allow yourself to be the one enjoying the experiences of losing yourself in your fantasy make sure to bring along your pleasure beads. The unique double strand of beads can be used together to climax two fold. Just be ready for an experience that you will want again and again.

Why stay in the same rut with the same moves every time? Use these toys, tips and tricks to bring your relationship up a notch or two. Keep yourselves guessing at what you will do next. Foreplay is to bring couples closer together, open lines of communication, and increase sexual stimulation. When every thing remains the same, the relationship never changes. Find new levels of fun, entertainment, enjoyment and trust. To keep your relationship moving forward, use the tools above to continue this forward progress, before you know it, you will crave to continue your explorations.

And remember, keep it enjoyable!!!

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Or in this case, your libido. That’s right. You talked, and I listened. After the article Tips for Better Foreplay for Him was released, I received quite a response for men looking for new and innovative ways to please him.

I have been told that I was way off base with the massage, standard that is, and maybe with the lingerie for her. Okay, I admit it. I was not thinking about everyone here, and I apologize for that. Please let me try to make this up to you by suggesting some things that I have learned from talking to friends who say they use these tips, tricks and toys to have that fun in the bedroom, and anywhere else they want to have a great time.

I can only hope that you are as forgiving to me as my friends have been. I asked them to review the toy, BJ vouchers for him. I can not print their response. However, they say that they have found enjoyment in the Gay Sex The Card Game, with over 100,000 possible fantasies to indulge in, they may be a while in the final review. We will leave them to it.

Card games not really your style? That is okay to; I have other tricks up my sleeve, so to speak. For the beginner into sex toys we have Thai anal beads. When removed at the precise time, the climax is off the charts. For those who have had this experience, you know what I am saying here, everyone needs to try these at least once…maybe more.

Regardless of sexual orientation, oral gratification is still ranked high on the list. And why not find a product that will lubricate, stimulate, and cause an icy tingling sensation. Al right, stop thinking about Altoids®, now what I am talking about is a product like Body Sensations tingling oil/lubricant. Or Razzles warming lubricant, which is so easy to use, simply rub on and blow for a new pleasing and teasing experience.

When talking about having a steamy night at home, and making sure to do something different, many people often overlook movies. Granted, not everyone enjoys watching on screen what they would rather be doing themselves, but for anyone looking to have a visual and audio sensory overload, try a movie sometime. I am still awaiting the critique of the film called Night Walk, maybe you could check it out; see for yourself if movies are anything that stirs up your partner.

No article about foreplay could be complete without discussing prostate massage. When I wrote the first article I had researched the subject to find out exactly what people who have enjoyed said. What I did not know at the time, was that they make a toy for people to use, and when you are looking for ways to turn on your partner in new ways check out on of these.

The Aneros MGX is designed for both the beginner and expert. The reviews regarding this toy say that it works with your bodies own contractions to achieve male orgasms like nothing else. By using the toy you can assist your partner in achieving these without worrying about whether or not you are performing the massage properly.

Trying out new things or movies or toys does not mean that you have become bored or in a rut with each other. Couples need to remember that be experimenting and moving the relationship in new and diverse directions is keeping it fresh. With time, stress and simply the worries of the world, we can all use an escape. When you are in a relationship having new sexual encounters and growing with each other you keep that relationship fresh.

And remember, keep it enjoyable!!!

Lately, the trend is beginning to shift and many ladies are questioning the best ways to please their man. This article will address a few tips and tricks that can be performed to enhance the sexual pleasure for you both. There are many comments regarding men and the issue of erections. How long will it last without the use of pills?

Not to worry. Our first tip has nothing to do with erections. To begin a great sexual experience with your man, begin by helping him to unwind after a long, difficult week. Begin by giving him a relaxing massage. This will give you two an intimate sharing time together without the pressure associate with a need to perform. And by beginning with a massage, it is very easy to segue into foreplay of a more expressive nature.

As your massage is winding down, now is the time to begin touching, kissing and rubbing of a different nature. Again, make sure to take your time. Do not jump around. If you start to kiss his neck, do not move to the backs of his knees without maintaining some form of contact the entire time.

Men enjoy being touched as much as women, so use caresses, light touching, and kissing. Begin by kissing his chest, once your way slowly down his torso to his penis. Use your fingernails to gently trail along his sides providing a tingling sensation that will keep him occupied. Once you have reached his penis and testicles, do not stop there. Go to the outer thighs, making sure to rub your body against him as much as possible.

You want to keep him guessing as to when/if you will be performing oral sex. Remember, teasing can be fun. Continue to move from his thighs to his chest using your lips, tongue, fingers, and fingertips. As you pass his penis and testicles stop for a few seconds. Begin oral sex, but not for long. Every time you move across his body, make sure to stay for a little longer.

Once you have decided that you are ready, begin to perform oral sex without lengthy breaks in between. Keep in mind, for some men, once this action is taken, they may not want you to stop.

There have been numerous threads dedicated to the prostate massage. Men have been noted to not allow this action to be taken, as they feel it may have homosexual tendencies. This is not the situation. If someone enjoys this, there is nothing wrong with it. If this is your first time, here is what you should begin doing.

Once your partner is relaxed and is ready, insert a well lubricated finger into his anus. If you are facing your partner you will locate a rounded bump approximately 2 inches inside the rectum. Apply gentle pressure to the prostate to massage him and give pleasure he has never known before.

Always communicate with each other. Watch for signs that what you are doing is enjoyable. Foreplay should not make someone uncomfortable with themselves or you. Talk about things that you want to do, and ask about anything that he knows that he enjoys.

Remember to keep it enjoyable.

However, one topic of discussion that does not get enough respect is foreplay.  This has been a topic of discussions, jokes and often times complaints.  Many people feel that this is an unnecessary and time consuming activity that really has no benefits.  For women and men alike there are many couples to whom foreplay is not something that they feel any benefits from. For others, even when they feel mentally or emotionally ready they are physically not, and welcome many forms of foreplay to reach there desired readiness.

Couples often begin prior to a lovemaking session.  However, try beginning early in the day, if you have time.  Anticipation of what is to come helps to heighten and stimulate the experience.  This can be done very easily with simple kissing, hugging and light touching.  Keep your partner guessing as to whether now is the time, or are you still teasing.  To make sure they remain on their toes take every opportunity to pull them close and give them a long, deep, passionate kiss that will leave each of you breathless.  Continue to reach out and lightly touch through out the day.  

As the moment gets closer, begin with the deep kissing, light touching and begin to remove their clothes.  This will signal that the time has arrived, and it for some reason your partner is not ready, they can tell you.  Try to keep these moments random.  Relationships become a little stale when you create rules to having sex.  Mix up the time, the place, and always the how.

For women this is the point wherein they find that most men have managed to find their breast and nipples and have stopped.  While many women find this appealing, only linger if she is responding in a positive manner.  Remember, that the back, belly, buttocks, thighs and knees are also special places.  Using fingertips to touch create sensations that build the anticipation that you have been stoking all day.  Now is a good time to ask “do you enjoy this?”  Or “is there something else I can do?”  Always listen to her response. 

Make your movements slow.  If you begin by suckling her nipples, do not simply jump up, and take a leap down south.  Use this time to lick, touch, kiss and tease your way down her body.  Shake things up, if she is lying on her back, begin your descent and turn her over half way through.  This will keep her tuned in to your every move.

Care is needed when attempting to use fingers as a means of a clitoral orgasm as some women become sensitive to dry fingertips.  Should this be a problem, use a lubricant or use oral sex to achieve these.  Again, pay attention to any response she is giving you as an overly sensitive clitoris or labia will only cause discomfort and will achieve nothing.          

Should you find that lubricants are needed or wanted there are a variety of products that do not resemble thick gels.  Many help to enhance the experience by tingling, warming or cooling the areas applied to.  Some are flavored for use during oral sex, or anywhere on the body.

Sex toys are becoming very popular in adding an extra bit of fun.  Many can be used during foreplay as well as during the lovemaking.  Before choosing a product, look over many different toys and talk about what your expectations for the use are.  This is a toy and should be used for fun and enjoyment, not to make someone feel replaced.

To summarize, while communication is and always will be the key, there are many others things to memorable, enjoyable foreplay that will enhance the experience for both partners.  Kissing, touching, massaging are all ways to bring out the physical side to get her ready.  Remember to take your time.  Instead of jumping around from one place to another, use your bodies to move slowly and experiment with what you both feel is exciting.  And never forget to listen and watch for responses to what you are doing.  Sometimes you may see a look that says, don’t ever stop. 

Keep it enjoyable!!