Tips to Better Foreplay for Him 2
The first article that I wrote on this subject has had so many readers; I felt that a follow up was in order. Some of these tips and tricks should go without saying; however, we should try to leave out as little as possible. That being said let us begin.
Regardless of what time of day, or where you are, there is always something that can be done. For instance, when is the last time you whispered a secret in his ear? You know that kind that I am really talking about. This is the time that you lean in very close like you have something extremely important and sensitive to say and instead all he can feel is the tip of your tongue barely grazing his skin. Follow up with light exhalation and move back like the secret has been delivered. When this tip is delivered correctly, only the two of you will know what happened.
Once you are alone make your move. Begin this with a kiss. Not the simple peck on the lips, I mean the full fledge tongue combat whole body involvement kiss. Do not make him feel like you are trying to pull his face off, simply be passionate. Gentle sucking of lips and tongue can go a long way. Use your hands to pull his body close to yours, or if you feel up to it, back him into a wall or other stationary object to show that he is yours to do with what you please.
With sex clothing is always optional. I have yet to find anywhere the sexy way to remove socks, so get them off as quickly as possible. All other clothing should be removed slowly, and with as much touching as you can manage. As the pants begin to slide down his legs, wrap your bare leg around his. And make sure to take the time to step back and give an appraising look, this is optimal to telling him how attractive he is to you.
Remember, men are not fragile. Feel free to “man handle” your man. Do not break him, by any means, but fingernails can be sexy. If you have him pinned against a wall, use that to your advantage to continue on. Use your hands to push against his chest, or reach down and roughly caress his thighs, grab his hips and pull them to you. Mix it up. Light nipping on any body part at any time can be a turn on, by light I mean not leaving teeth marks that remain for a week.
Do not over look the power of suggestive conversation. In other words, talk dirty. Not sure how, it’s easier then you think. You know what you intend to do with him, so tell him. Use language that is as explicit as possible. Be descriptive and energetic, not perky, but sound as interested as you really are. If you sound like you are bored or as if you don’t want to do this, he will know and will respond accordingly. Whereas even if you are unsure of this trick, you succeed in sounding coy, this is a turn on in itself. After you begin, and see and feel how he is excited by this, it will be easier to continue, be careful not to say something that you do not intend to at least attempt to do.
Begin talking dirty while leading him to a place you can remain until after sex. Once you have him there, use a blindfold, this will keep him guessing and heighten the pleasures you are giving him. Whether it is oral sex, or kissing his neck, knees or the small of his back, it will be amazing if he can not see what is about to happen next.
Use every tool in your personal arsenal to get him to the absolute brink of climax. Never forget to use the act of sex itself. Many people neglect the fact that a few seconds of sex can itself be a form of foreplay. Stay long enough to establish a rhythm and make him think that the foreplay is over. And then go onto something else. Maybe kiss his ankles or suck his toes. Anything to make him wonder what is coming up next.
This will only work for a few times after which the surprise will have worn off and it will be routine. Routine is exactly what you are trying to avoid. Keep any maneuvers from the past that he enjoys while trying out something new. Variety truly is the spice of life, no matter how long you have been together, there is always a way to mix it up.
And remember…keep it enjoyable!!!
